Jon Jolly

my life and youth work…

Entries Tagged ‘Thoughts’

Lessons from strangers

The other day, I was in Tesco’s queing at one of those self-scanning checkouts. At the till to my right I noticed a young girl aged about 10 or 11 putting in loads of coppers to pay for a 6 pint of milk. Pretty soon all the coins in her hand had gone into the [...]

Being a son of thunder

Following on from my last post, I attended a prayer meeting this morning where a few of us got together for the first time. Martin announced that his inspiration for gathering together was the passage in Mark 3:17 where Jesus nicknames James and John the “Sons of thunder”. He strongly felt these words are significant [...]

Being a son

A few weeks ago, I forgot my mum’s birthday. Well, I say forgot. I actually remembered it was her birthday and bought a card. What I failed to do was to call her up, wish her happy birthday, or even post the card to her. This is even more unforgivable when you know that I [...]

A quick tip…

Never try to remodel your kitchen while studying for a degree, moving jobs and helping organise a national conference. It gets a bit messy!

Stalling

Why is it that sometimes, simple tasks become such a burden that you find yourself doing anything else except what you need to? I usually find writing assignments, tidying the house, or doing the banking fall into this category. Right now I need to finish the 11-14’s teaching notes for Spring Harvest. They were [...]

The power of shared experience

This afternoon, when out for a walk in the countryside with 5 teenage boys, we wandered onto land that was not part of the public footpath. We were challenged by a lady shouting from the upstairs window of her house, who then gave us directions back to the path. It was getting quite dark and [...]

Happy New Year!

I’ve been trying to think back over 2006 and sum up my thoughts of the year. All in all it’s been quite an emotional ride and I’ve taken on a lot of responsibilities; buying a house, working towards my DipHE Level 2, staff changes at work, etc. So I thought I’d be fun to take [...]

Youthwork: The Conference

Ok, Ok. So this post is around a month late, but I’ve had a lot to think about (and no time to write it). I was also prompted by the arrival of all the talks on mp3 yesterday. I attended the Eastbourne Conference and although the whole weekend was good, I was most struck by [...]

The importance of being with people

The last 2 weeks have probably been the hardest I have yet had to face in my vocation as a youth worker because I have spent much of my time supporting particular families in crisis situations while wrestling with my own role at work. I have felt singularly useless and found myself exhausted of practical [...]

Preparing for Worship

Tomorrow is Sunday 1st October and Arun Community Church is having a thanksgiving service. It just so happens that I’m on the rota to lead worship for the meeting and have spent much of the day with a guitar in hand, trying to choose a set of songs that reflect what I believe God wants [...]